Hello Lovlies,
On Saturday I went to see Gabrielle Aplin and she was amazing and one of the songs she sings is called The Power of Love which got me thinking, the actual power of the love we show towards people has a massive impact and I thought I should blog about it.
When I say 'Love' I don't mean like boyfriend girlfriend relationship, I mean just Love in general, just a hello to a stranger or a comforting hug to a friend. The things we say and do in our day to day lives really impact other people wether or not we actually notice it. Most people are insecure when it comes to certain aspects of life and I know that personally for Girls in general there is so much pressure to be perfect. The idea of perfection is an unachievable thing for anyone and so I don't think it's right for people to be judged on it. When you see your friend surely it would be better to compliment them then to say something that they couldn't misinterpret into something that could hurt them. Wear love on your sleeves, smile at people and be positive because people watch you and they see how you act and if you just so much as smile then that could boost their confidence.
Love the people you are with show love to the people you aren't with, if people are gossiping about someone behind their backs then say something nice about that person show love for that person because how would you feel if that was you? I know this is possibly the most hypocritical thing to say because we all talk about people behind their backs wether or not we mean to. I also think it is important to show love to people and compliment people and build them up because you don't know a persons life or their situation or the things they may be facing and you complimenting someone could essentially change their life, for all you know someone could be severely depressed and just from you showing love to them they may not cut or try to kill themselves. Love saves lives, it is a powerful thing and we all have the ability to use it for good and the fact that most of us don't use it breaks my heart.
Also be careful with how you compliment someone because some words we use to compliment can come across as hurtful, I watched Zoe and Louise's video the other day which completely summed it all up so I will link it below because I think you should all definitely check it out. I am constantly called skinny and skinny is an offensive word, it's like calling someone fat, its offensive and there are ways of saying your compliment in a much nicer way so just think about how you could say it in a much less offensive way.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYvOD1ZIFD8&feature=c4-overview-vl&list=PLeZ60cpzimpuNeb16oKb_qGWw0WmCjSK6
Wear love on your sleeve, smile and care.
Lots of Love
Joanna
xxx